I was super lucky growing up to have a Mum and Nan who were very clever at sewing, crochet and knitting. I was taught these skills at a young age.
Fast forward, and crochet has become a meditation for me. I am someone who always likes to be doing something. Crochet is perfect for that. I can take it with me to places, do it while watching tv or just sitting quietly.
I love the feel of the yarn through my fingers. The fact that you have to stick at it to finish it makes it really special. Delayed gratification is so under valued in our society where everyone wants things yesterday! Crochet teaches you patience.
I started crochet again when I was going through a rough patch. I found it calmed me, it settled my mind and my anxiety dissipated. I started small with baby blankets and have now made beautiful throws, dog bandanas, clothes, Halloween pumpkins, toys, scarves and beanies. Making them and giving to people I love, fills my cup!
But!, it doesn’t have to be crochet. My hubby loves his garden, and although we have moved in to an apartment, he loves his orchids and indoor plants and spends time just tending to them. That’s his happy place.
For you, it might be reading a book, going for a bush walk, cooking, needlework, art or painting. Honestly, it could be anything.
I think the trick with a hobby is that it’s something you need to be doing, with your hands. I know that sounds strange, but it’s a special investment of your time and energy just for you.
You may not be great at it at first, but with practice, seeing the improvements and finishing a project gives one immense joy.
I look at hobbies as a form of self care. We are all so busy and stressed with our lives, this is time set aside just for you. It’s constructive downtime. There are rewards when you complete a project and I cannot tell you how wonderful it feels to put that last stitch in a big project.
So how do you find a hobby that suits you?
What interests you?
How much do you want to invest?
Look at doing a craft class so you can try before jumping in.
Stick to your project and finish it.
If you have a friend who has a hobby you want to try, ask them to teach you.
Give it a go! If it isn’t for you, at least you tried.
So, go and try something new. You might even meet some amazing new people, and develop some wonderful new skills.
Bek xx
